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                                                      The Damage of Betrayal and Lies

ra Gollobin did one of the most despicable things a father and grandfather
can do to a child.  He knowingly planned and secretly carried out a scheme to victimize one of his loving daughters and to damage his only biological granddaughter.

Virtually all psychiatric professionals will agree on the significant damage caused by what Ira did.  While not sexual or physically violent in nature, what Ira did was clearly a calculated and vicious example of child abuse.

Lest you argue my use of the term "Child Abuse," first reflect on what these respected organizations say -

Definitions of Child Abuse

Under U.S. Federal Law:

According to the Federal Child Abuse Prevention and Treatment Act (CAPTA) (42 U.S.C.A. 5106g), as amended by the Keeping Children and Families Safe Act of 2003, defines child abuse and neglect as, at a minimum:
  • Any recent act or failure to act on the part of a parent which results in death, serious physical or serious emotional harm, sexual abuse or exploitation; or

  • An act or failure to act which presents an imminent risk of such serious harm.

* American Bar Association:
According to the American Bar Association (and, recall, Ira was a lawyer), Child Abuse is defined as "Any form of cruelty to a child, which includes not only physical cruelty but mental cruelty."

* World Health Organization:
According to the WHO, "Child abuse can occur ar any age" and includes . . .   "mental abuse, and psychological maltreatment . . .  Less severe acts, but no less damaging are belittling or rejecting treatment . . .  or blaming. "


Make no mistake - what Ira Gollobin did to his daughter and his only biological grandchild was not an accident, not an oversight, not something that somehow just "slipped between the cracks." 

No.  What Ira Gollobin did in his final Will was purposely planned and crafted to do the maximum mental and emotional damage to his daughter and granddaughter.  His goal was simple and horrible - to punish them because they didn't worship him as a near-god as he required.  Ira did his evil by betraying and rejecting a good daughter and a good granddaughter, by ignoring their futures, by dismissing them as beneath contempt, and by hugely and visibly rewarding someone who, in my opinion, didn't live his values but did feed his enormous ego.

In other words, Ira Gollobin knew the pain and distress he would cause half his family - and he wanted them to be emotionally and financially harmed. 

For a father (and grandfather) to purposely and viciously damage the daughter and  granddaughter who actually lived his stated principles and values is, frankly, beyond my comprehension.   And, further, to then so visibly reward his other daughter (who I believe fed Ira's enormous, obsessive ego and denigrated her sister) is sickness personified.  

By my measure, Ira Gollobin was a child abuser.  He abused and discarded two wonderful people - an accomplished daughter who dearly loved him and his only biological granddaughter, a meritorious young woman who actually lived his stated (but ultimately fake) principles.  

Any loving father and grandfather would have rightly been proud of them and cared about, protected, and provided for them in every way possible.  Ira Gollibin was neither loving or devoted; instead he was a malignant narcissist who purposely hurt those who wouldn't tell him he was an equal to Christ.  

This loveless wickedness will be Ira's final, personal legacy.  And, like pointing out the rapist, this is a story that must be told so that those who were damaged can heal and so others can know the truth.  



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